Life is what you make it. You run the show, It's hard, it's simple, its complicated, it's what you take it to be You don't have to please everyone, you'll be a hypocrite. Do your thing, as long as it doesn't negatively affect anyone directly. People will mess you up yes, but that aint a reason to not be unique. Remember, it's your life do as you please, do to others what you wish would be done to you. Try and be different and spontaneous at the same time.
One rule of the book is, not everyone is willing to carry your shit with you, it might appear so but you have to be wise enough to notice. Shit happens, people live through a lot of misfortunes so u aint the first one to go through it, neither will you be the last.
Pick yourself up dust yourself and keep going. Mistakes make you stronger and better. God never tests you beyond your abilities. Take heart